Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Can you be elegant and poised without being very beautiful?

People always associate elegance and poise with physical beauty, but what if you aren't really beautiful? What if you are just average, if not a bit short and freckled? Will displays of elegance and poise make you seem beautiful, or can it not be achieved unless you are triple threat?|||I associate poise and elegance with demeanor and attitude, not looks. Elegance does have something to do with appearance but a woman can be decent looking and carry herself well and wear nice clothes thus making her elegant. I don't think Jackie Onassis was particularly attractive but she dressed well and carried herself well.|||People are attracted to people who put themselves out there as happy, confident , kind, interested, and worth knowing. Beauty is often obnoxious and not very interesting once the first layer of the onion is peeled away. Watch a few Audrey Hepburn movies. Not very tall, really kind of flat and skinny, not all that great in the hair department, but when she talked and moved she sparkled and glowed. A certain magnetism. Elegant and poised. Would not have made a beauty queen, but how many of those can you name, but I bet you knew the name Audrey Hepburn no matter how old you are.|||Hell yes you can be elegant and poised without being very beautiful.


Seen it a dozen times before.


It's all in how you carry yourself.


Beauty alone doesn't set off the chain reaction.


Poise and elegance, for those who appreciate it, are attractive qualities.|||Yes.


It really makes a difference if you have elegance and poise or not.


It may even make you seen more beautiful.


It shows confidence and confidence makes you hot.


Good luck.


:)))|||Yes, one can definitely be elegant and poised without being very physically attractive. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."|||Offcrse Hun! Beauty comes from within' .. If you have a good personality and a kind heart ..poise and elegance comes naturally. =)|||Poise and elegance is all about presence, not physical appearance.

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