How do you be an elegant woman?

A lot of teenagers now a days don't have any manners, (or are poor at showing them), are crude and vulgar, and their speech is peppered with profanity.





I don't want to be like that, because sophistication and elegance goes a long way when you're in the real world.





I was wondering what behavior makes a woman elegant and sophisticated?





Thanks!|||so what if teens like me have bad manners your not nice -sad face-|||First off, I think being self-respectful, showing self-confidence yet being modest at the same time and presenting yourself well. By that I mean, wearing clean neat clothes, it depends how elegant you want to get, such as wearing a dress and heels. You can still be elegant if you wear jeans, heels and a nice top and have the mind set that you are elegant and it will show through your attitude of carrying yourself with grace.|||Learn to feel good about yourself on the inside, feel elegant inside. Hold your head up high and, no matter what, never forget that you're the best you can be. That alone should make you feel elegant.


Of course, you could just ignore the teens or google 'be elegant'.|||A lot of adults don't have manners either.





Be polite (please/thank you) and treat people as you would like to be treated. Learn how to self-edit (think before speaking).|||Makisha, you do know your one of a kind.





Sweetie, just remember one thing...... beauty comes from within|||i'm a teenager :(